Hey VCs, it’s not your company!

(Editor’s note: Brad Feld is an early stage investor and co-founder of Foundry Group. This post originally appeared on his blog.)

VCs say a lot of stupid things.  I’m guilty of it plenty and whenever someone calls me on it I try to acknowledge and change.  One that I try really hard not to do is say “my company” when referring to companies I’ve invested in – I think it’s one of the most annoying things a VC can say.donotcross

I was talking to a VC the other day about a few companies he had invested in.  By the third time he referred to one of the companies as “my company” (as in “My company is working on X”, “My company would like to talk to Company Z about thing Y”) I felt myself starting to react.  I didn’t really have a relationship with this VC, but I knew that he had never run a company (investment banking post college, MBA, then VC). I realized I wanted to stop him at some point and say “dude – it’s not your company – you are merely an 18 percent shareholder in the business.”

I bit my tongue and had the conversation, but I’ve been thinking about this in the back of my mind ever since.

One of the great lines from TechStars is “It’s your company.”  That’s the way David Cohen and I remind the TechStars’ founders that ultimately all the decisions are theirs – the mentors (and us) are providing data, feedback, thoughts, and insight – but not telling them what to do.  Sure – a lot of our (and the mentors) language is directive (e.g. I just sent an email to a TechStars CEO that said “you should do thing W right now”) but ultimately the decision as to what to do is the CEO’s.

While I’ve got plenty of rights as an investor, I’m very aware that I’m “an investor.” If you are a CEO or an entrepreneur, I can’t imagine anything more annoying than hearing one of your investors refer to the business as “his company.”  Now, if the investor owns more than 50 percent of the company, I guess this is a legitimate legal perspective, but it’s still an incredibly demotivating position to take.

So – to all my friends out there in VC-land – let’s try to change the language.  Some of the VCs I respect the most – like Fred Wilson – diligently refer to investments they make as “portfolio companies” (as in “our portfolio company X”).  I often refer to them as “our investment” or “our portfolio company”.

Regardless of the approach you take, think about the language you use, especially the impact on the people who are working their asses off every day to make “their company” successful.

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About the Author, Brad Feld

Brad Feld has been an early stage investor and entrepreneur for over twenty years. Prior to co-founding Foundry Group, he co-founded Mobius Venture Capital and, prior to that, founded Intensity Ventures. He currently serves on the board of directors of Gist, Gnip, Oblong, Standing Cloud, and Zynga for Foundry Group and blogs actively at Feld Thoughts.

  • Brad,
    Great perspective! Taking funding from VC's and giving up equity is a very scary experience. Whether it is through the language we use, or the mindset applied to an investment, finding ways to build empathy and ultimately build the two-way trust needed to successfully bring a new product or service to market, will only return more positive results for everyone in the end.
  • Geoff H
    There are definitely some great blogs and advice being handed out by VCs. It is starting to even turn around the terrible image VCs developed in the 90s and early 00s.
  • orajean1
    Brad,
    Great perspective. If only the edge could be taken out of the process. Gone are the days of deals by discussion, three day deals, deals on a handshake (Warren Buffett excepted, of course, considering how BNSF went down).

    Great Sunny Weekend, here in CO,
    Ora
  • Very interesting post.
    I guess that CEO's are also a fairly precious group of people and they have an ego as well. Upsetting the ego of the CEO is more likely to produce a negative lasting affect on a company than upsetting the VC in the short term
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